- Let him see the woman that you are – it brings out the best of the masculine in him.
- Be open and warm with good eye contact – this will help him to be more vulnerable too.
- Let him know if you’re feeling nervous… he may be too! Your conversation is more likely to shift to a more real and comfortable level.
- Realise that if he talks a lot about himself, he is probably wanting to impress.
- Be positive – men are not drawn to women who are critical and complaining.
- Help to make the date as enjoyable as it can be for you both – even if you don’t think you will want to see him again.
- Have realistic expectations – you are meeting to enjoy time together – to see if you’d like to get to know each other more.
- Leave your biz persona at the office – it is not what attracts a man!
- Dress to show your softer, feminine self – after all this is what appeals.
- Show appreciation of gentlemanly gestures – opening doors, walking you to your car, offering to pay for dinner – he is honouring you as a woman.
Finally, be open to a second date – it is likely to be more relaxed and enjoyable!
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